Ah, love. It’s a many-splendored thing, but it’s also challenging and complex and really effing confusing – which is why I put my love language in my Tinder bio, so I could figure out from first swipe which of my matches would be most compatible with me.
For those unfamiliar with love languages, allow me to break it down for you. Back in 1995, an anthropologist and an wrote a book called The Five Love Languages, explaining that we all have different ways of interpreting and expressing, well, love (aka “love languages”). Those five languages include Gift Giving, Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service (devotion), and Physical Touch, and every person has at least one. Most people know theirs right off the bat, but there are a ton of personality tests and online quizzes that can tell you your love language as well, if you’re unsure. Continue reading “I Put My Love Language In My Tinder BioWow, Do These Guys Have Some Words of Affirmation”