When you’re a woman just who likes in manage or a good child just who loves to play a very subordinate role, you happen to be curious-or currently finding yourself employed in-female-added relationships.
What’s a female-provided dating, otherwise FLR?
A lady-provided dating, otherwise FLR, was traditionally a variety of Sadomasochism matchmaking ranging from a dominating woman and you will a great submissive guy. While the name started from inside the kink community, some individuals today use the name “female-contributed matchmaking” significantly more essentially to spell it out any relationships between one and you will a great girl when the lady holds alot more stamina compared to the kid, whether or not with respect to breadwinner standing, decision-and then make expert, or perhaps the couple’s intimate dynamic.
“This is has some variants, as this is an extensive umbrella identity,” based on intercourse educator and you will elite group dominatrix Lola Jean. “FLR will likely be any dating that isn’t ‘male-contributed.’ With its most easy structure, [an enthusiastic FLR is generally] more of an equal-energy or varied-energy exchange between partners. Within its far more significant and possibly traditional [form], FLR was a romance where ladies, or femme, is the decision-founder to your most other partner. This can be from the funds on the dresses so you’re able to a great deal more menial tasks eg tasks.”
