Thus, we were really not surprised to find some people questioning the “compatibility of matches” that eHarmony sells. For example, in the online independent platforms, you’ll easily find person members complaining of being matched with clearly incompatible persons even though the eHarmony’s compatibility ratings were declaring them 100% compatible.
Summary
eHarmony is a legitimate dating site that comes out as a strong dating site for serious singles seeking long term relationships. This is not a place for the short flings or hook-ups. You’re also not likely to be bombarded with tons of “Hi”. Though the “scientific” matching system of eHarmony has been called out, the site still put in the effort to ensure that it only send to members only profiles that match certain compatibility indices. Thus, you are very likely to find compatible singles in the site. And if you are one of such that holds that compatibility leads to “happy ever after”, then eHarmony holds a gives you a good shot at “happy ever after”.
It is safe and legit, it has a large membership base, profiles are detailed enough, and it provides a lot of communication resources.
However, there are some bumps along the road. You’ll have to be straight to use it (as men can only seek women, while women can only seek men). You’ll find that you have to open the wallet to use the service meaningfully, and you’ll be spending relatively more because eHarmony is relatively expensive. Also, you’ll need to be patient; you cannot search the members’ pool, and eHarmony will only send you a limited number of matches daily. Continue reading “The site checks many boxes of the ideal dating site”